Welcome Back...

Well... I am finally back. For the record, I did complete the 21 day challenge.... *lol*

Then as we all know, life got in the way.  I also bought a new computer, finally made the switch to Mac and all the lovely little transition things that come with that.  Not complaining at all, just different.

To add to that, I decided to take two courses at once, so I can get my designation completed as soon as possible.  That was my April - July and both of my final papers were due on my birthday!

Despite the chaos at work, taking two courses at once as well as living the rest of my life - I have survived! *lol*

There is so much to get caught up on, but honestly you would probably be bored to death, so I will just start from where I am right now.

I am at home doing my 10th 3 Day Novel Contest, while trying to plan our upcoming trip to England.  What that really means is that I am taking a break from writing and figuring out how to meet my personal goal.  What is that you ask?  I want to pack for the two of us - for two week - in two bags. One carry on each.

Now for those of you who know me - yes, I am serious.   And yes, I realize how much of a challenge this really is.  For those of you who don't know me - typically I have my purse and a carry on, strictly to keep my items for the flights. In addition I usually have the larger of my suitcases with clothes and shoes, and a smaller one with just toiletries.  On some level I realize having 4 bags to travel for 3 - 4 days is ridiculous.

My problem isn't planning, as I do that really well. It is pairing things down and not giving myself options that I am not good at.  So... this is the first step in making my life more simple.  Yes, I am having to shop to make sure I am all matching and co-ordinated, so I can pack lightly and simply - stop laughing, you know this is true about me.  And today, I found my "accessory colour", which is now the final touch.

I had the black, white and grey all sorted out but wanted a splash of color that could tie it all in, dress things up or down as it were.  That color for today is orange/red/pink - persimmon color.  I think it is funny that it took me all this time to figure it out, when really I just had to look at my cosmetics.  Long ago I found that my skin had both pink and orange tones to it, so started using Orgasm from NARS as it has both tones represented in their blush, lips etc.,   Why it took me a few years to do the same for clothing, is beyond me.  But at least now, I know. I get it.

So.. what that also means, is that I am going to finally do what I have been wanting to do for a few years. Truly go through my closet and give myself the wardrobe that I want. Fewer pieces, that make the most impact and are interchangeable with each other.

Quarterly I go through and donate, but I think I may just try to post some of my clothes and shoes on ebay.  I certainly buy enough from there, so it might be interesting to see what I think of the other side.

Years ago I found out about a lady named Chata Romano and loved her approach.  That is what I am going to use to pack as well as go through my wardrobe.  I am going to be brutal, no sense in doing this half way.

Well, it is midnight and I am tired, but again, I will try to be here somewhat regularly... yes, I would like to spend this 10 minutes on myself every day, but that too will come.

On my way to being the best me, I can be. I hope you are too....

IJ

Having some technical Issues....

Hi everybody, I have been having some technical issues....but hope to be back on track on Monday.

I did complete the 21 days and will finish the postings once my technical difficulties are resolved.

See you again soon.

The Light of Devotion

Day 17 - The Light of Devotion

So here we are, day 17.  We have learned to recognize and harness the power of our thoughts, words and actions to keep us on the path to achieve the goals and feelings we indentified in the first few days. Pretty powerful stuff.

Even if you feel that you haven't mastered or completely understood the goals of each day, we still move forward with today. As I have said before, continue at your own pace, repeat as necessary, but whatever you do, don't stop.

Today's change agent is devotion, to yourself. To this process. Devotion to this will keep you on track and in line with your life, your gifts and your goals. This will ultimately help you stay in control of your inside world, thoughts and actions and release your wish or need to control the outside world. which by now, you know you cannot control. Interestingly, nor should you.  Every time you get involved and change the track, you affect how things should happen for yourself and for others.  The impact of that is huge.

This devotion to yourself, minute by minute, day by day etc., will ensure that your gift is the only thing other people receive from you. Not your fear, judgement or confusion that throws them off their own path.  Pursuing your goals and life, should not negatively impact anybody else, as they have their own unique goals.  If your thoughts and actions, add positively to their lives, it will not throw them off path.  Just as theirs have no impact on you because you have learned to master your thoughts and actions.

Today, try to write out what impact this faith and devotion to yourself will have on your goals. I think you are going to love what you find. Use this every day to keep you on track with yourself. You are worth it!

The Light of God's Will

Day 16 - The Light of God's Will

Before we get started, lets be clear, this isn't about any individual, religion or culture, this is about beleiving there is something more or larger than ourselves. A divinity we can all relate and connect to, whatever that means to each of you individually.  So when the title says "God's will" change that to whatever "God" means to you in title or representation.

So with that said, on some level we all believe we have purpose and a reason for being here. If you believe that, it is also safe to assume that there is a path to be or get to where you want to be. ie: if we are on our path, we will reach our goals/souls purpose.

As we learned yesterday, our thoughts and what we stay within affect us. If managing our minds and thoughts is hard, today is taking the next step.  Today is about mastering your words and actions as well.  To ensure they are in line with what will get and keep you on your path. Truly, what you say and how you say it, matters.  To you and to those who receive it. Who you choose to spend your time with and how you spend it, matters.

It is through these interactions you learn the lessons you need to learn while here, serving your destiny. When you fail to learn these lessons, they turn into limitations. (This is so true and this lesson is timely, as that is exactly where I am on something).  These limitations take us off our path and into a place of darkness, obstacles, confusion, fear and into a different direction all together.

So, now we all want to know, how to stay on track, how to not get stuck or have our ego lead the way.  Today's change agent is here to teach us how to do this for ourself. Yesterday we found a touchstone to connect to, to bring our minds back to that place that is inline with our goals. Now you need to find the words or mantra that are positive to you, support you, be your compass and your guide.

Sit with yourself quietly, review your goals and feelings and think of that place you want to be, live and exist in. The words will come to you if you truly listen from the place we learned about yesterday. They dont have to make sense or mean anything to anybody else. These are just for you, personally.

This may sound odd, but if I may offer a personal example to give you an idea.  A previous mantra I made for myself, that I purposely had for my computer password so I knew I would have to repeat it every day, sometimes several times was : "it is important to me to stay in line with the flow of energy that will support and encourage me every step of the way." (the password was the first initial of every word - to say it was secure, would be an understatement)

So... now it is your turn to come up with something for yourself.